IPB

Welcome Guest ( Log In | Register )

4 Pages V   1 2 3 > »   
Reply to this topicStart new topic
Iubire sau Cariera?
Rala
post Mar 12 2005, 08:20 PM
Post #1


Member
**

Group: Members
Posts: 51
Joined: 4-March 05
Member No.: 641



Sa presupunem ca ati avea de ales: Iubire sau Cariera? Ce ati alege?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Mar 12 2005, 11:42 PM
Post #2


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



rala,
Exista cazuri cand insasi parteneri trebuiesc sa cedeze sau sa renunte unul in favoarea celuilalt.., iar daca ar fi ca aceasta ultima alegere sa devina unica in masura sa hotarasca, atunci cu siguranta eu as alege "cariera iubirii" inaintea "iubirii de cariera" :wink:
Pe bune!
Nu am avut ocazia sa renunt la cariera in favoarea iubirii... si cu siguranta as face-o din moment ce primei cariere ii atribui o importanta mai deosebita
Intotdeauna am apreciat hotararea luata in favoarea iubirii
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Mar 13 2005, 08:46 AM
Post #3


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



rala,
In iubire precum si in cariera exista aceleasi riscuri (IMG:/biggrin.gif) e esec sau reusita
Cat de viabila este "iubirea" de care aminteai.... si cat de certa este cariera amintita?
Din moment ce am ajuns la "a alege", atunci poate ca ar trebui sa mai chibzuim inca o data daca nu cumva, iubirea este doar formala sau doar un sentiment pe care sa il putem ignora...
Uneori se intampla ca acel sentiment de iubire sa fie impartasit doar de unul din indivizi....
Si dc sa alegem?
Dc ar trebui sa desparta o cariera?
Cum poate influenta cariera in iubire si invers?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Rala
post Mar 13 2005, 07:32 PM
Post #4


Member
**

Group: Members
Posts: 51
Joined: 4-March 05
Member No.: 641



Hmmm, pai sa spunem ca in primul rand nu ar mai exista timp...sau din ce in ce mai putin timp pe care sa-l petreceti impreuna, iar atunci persoana respectiva ar spune "alege"...doar o ipoteza...dar daca ar exista "iubirea" ar exista si intelegerea, iar daca exista intelegere nu ar mai exista alegere...in fine e o chestie ambigua, dar reala, intalnita deseori...
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Rala
post Mar 13 2005, 07:36 PM
Post #5


Member
**

Group: Members
Posts: 51
Joined: 4-March 05
Member No.: 641



Si mai exista o alta varianta (daca mai scriu o data cuvantul "exista" ma impusc)...sa presupunem ca unul dintre cei doi nu ar avea o cariera promitatoare si ar deveni gelos si atunci ar cauta diferite motive de "neintelegere"...stiu, complicat...
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Airman04061969
post Mar 14 2005, 10:33 AM
Post #6


Advanced Member
***

Group: Members
Posts: 2,396
Joined: 29-September 04
From: Addison (Texas)
Member No.: 443



Eu am avut de ales intre "iubire" si cariera si am ales cariera. Poate par cinic dar consider ca iubirea trece prin stomac asa ca, in acest fel, cariera are prioritate.


--------------------
Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Mar 14 2005, 11:21 AM
Post #7


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



Uite si un om de cariera :wink:
Cat de indragostit erai de pers respectiva si cat de indragostit erai de cariera?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Airman04061969
post Mar 14 2005, 11:25 AM
Post #8


Advanced Member
***

Group: Members
Posts: 2,396
Joined: 29-September 04
From: Addison (Texas)
Member No.: 443



Avand in vedere alegerea, tu de ce crezi ca eram mai indragostit ? De persoana respectiva sau de cariera ? (IMG:/laugh.gif)


--------------------
Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Mar 14 2005, 11:34 AM
Post #9


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



(Rala)
nu ar mai exista timp...sau din ce in ce mai putin timp pe care sa-l petreceti impreuna, iar atunci persoana respectiva ar spune "alege"...

rala,
Care persoana propune luarea unei decizii ("alege!"), acea care nu are timp sau cealalta?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Mar 14 2005, 11:40 AM
Post #10


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



(Airman04061969)
Avand in vedere alegerea, tu de ce crezi ca eram mai indragostit ? De persoana respectiva sau de cariera ? (IMG:/laugh.gif)

Dupa raspuns consider ca nu erai "intradevar" atat de indragostit incat sa fii pus in postura "alegerii" sau a "sacrificiului de cariera"...
Cred ca erai "tanar si nelinistit" (IMG:/biggrin.gif) ( cum de altfel cu totii am fost sau mai suntem :twisted: ) iar pe atunci , expresia "iubire" se amesteca in treaburile hormonale :wink: si doar atat!
Am fost exact?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Airman04061969
post Mar 14 2005, 11:46 AM
Post #11


Advanced Member
***

Group: Members
Posts: 2,396
Joined: 29-September 04
From: Addison (Texas)
Member No.: 443



No comments ! (IMG:/laugh.gif)


--------------------
Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Mar 14 2005, 11:55 AM
Post #12


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



ce ti-e si cu hormonii astia (IMG:/laugh.gif) !

In urma celor discutate,concluzia ar putea fi urmatoarea: "iubirea se masoara in sacrificii" si de aici ar rezulta urmat: "de am fi fost lipsiti de hormoni, cu siguranta am fi fost lipsiti de "sacrificii" (IMG:/laugh.gif) :twisted:
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Rala
post Mar 14 2005, 07:09 PM
Post #13


Member
**

Group: Members
Posts: 51
Joined: 4-March 05
Member No.: 641



Eu nu te consider cinic si eu as face la fel...cred...
Raspunsul la intrebarea "cine ar fi spus "alege"?" este:...persoana de care parteneru(a) nu are timp datorita carierei...se satura pleaca dar nu inainte de a-i mai da o sansa
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Mar 15 2005, 09:08 AM
Post #14


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



ok
Sa spunem ca "el" este acea persoana care nu realizeaza o anume raceala a relatiei, raceala care binenteles este cauzata de absenta implicarii si contributiei acestuia ...
Dc ar mai trebui sa primeasca o sansa?
Din moment ce cariera a devenit o pasiune, dc anume sa il fortam sa i-a decizii pripite?
Orce partener trebuie sa i-a la cunostiinta ca viata in cuplu aduce atat "impliniri" cat si sacrificii...
Viata in in doi nu trebuie sa devina dominata de "autoritatea deciziilor" precum nu trebuie sa devina dominanta
Daca partenerul este constient ca risca sa se indeparteze de relatie... atunci sa se departeze de tot, dar constient!
Pe de alta parte cred ca si "ea" ar putea hotara ce e mai bine pt el (cariera sau relatia?!...), iar decizia ii apartine in unanimitate ei doar in cazul in care intr-adevar sufera de pe urma "NEGLIJENTEI" acestuia!
Apropos de implicare si contributia in relatia de cuplu...
Crezi ca daca partenerul viseaza cu ochii deschisi spre zari albastre (cariera) mai are rost sa ii tulburam somnul????
In cuplu,... totdeauna cand dai, nu trebuie sa numeri , deoarece aceste cifre se pot intoarce sub forma de proprii reprosuri sau autocompatimiri .....,
Sa stii ca accensiunea in relatie poate fi influentata si de verbul "a da" ;
-sa dai mult mai mult decat ai primit, iar cand primesti sa te asiguri ca exista o diferenta intre "a da" si "a darui"!
Mai ramane de stabilit cine da primul, si cat! :wink: (indicat ar fi partenerul) :twisted:
Apropos la libertatea intr-o relatie;
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
ovidiu bufnila
post Mar 23 2005, 05:07 PM
Post #15


Member
**

Group: Members
Posts: 237
Joined: 28-January 04
Member No.: 156



Am ales de peste un sfert de veac a treia cale.

Ovidiu Bufnila
consilier de imagine

(Rala)
Sa presupunem ca ati avea de ales: Iubire sau Cariera? Ce ati alege?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Airman04061969
post Apr 6 2005, 05:28 AM
Post #16


Advanced Member
***

Group: Members
Posts: 2,396
Joined: 29-September 04
From: Addison (Texas)
Member No.: 443



Valurit, ca de obicei ! Ce-i aceea a treia cale ? Facutul l.... ca o cariera ? (IMG:/laugh.gif)


--------------------
Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Apr 6 2005, 06:12 AM
Post #17


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



Este imediata cale dupa cea de-a 2-a (IMG:/tongue.gif)
Stii care este cea de-a doua?
Este calea dinaintea celei de a treia :taz:
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Airman04061969
post Apr 6 2005, 06:17 AM
Post #18


Advanced Member
***

Group: Members
Posts: 2,396
Joined: 29-September 04
From: Addison (Texas)
Member No.: 443



Cata profunzime ! Ce geniu ! (IMG:/laugh.gif)


--------------------
Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
marius
post Apr 6 2005, 06:24 AM
Post #19


Senior Member
****

Group: SModerator
Posts: 5,055
Joined: 29-October 03
From: :-)
Member No.: 80



Stii ce e ala geniu?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
Airman04061969
post Apr 6 2005, 06:25 AM
Post #20


Advanced Member
***

Group: Members
Posts: 2,396
Joined: 29-September 04
From: Addison (Texas)
Member No.: 443



Daca e vorba de un banc, atunci nu stiu !


--------------------
Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post



4 Pages V   1 2 3 > » 
Reply to this topicStart new topic
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members:

 



RSS Lo-Fi Version Time is now: 22nd November 2019 - 08:27 PM